CUL DE SAC

We all have a past, and in many cases, one we are not proud of. We can't help what happened to people before we knew them. All that matters is how they are now.

Date: 10 March 2011 Title: O! Love - Part 1 From: Facebook Notes Love, something I know very little of. I hardly open up myself to possibilities and taking chances on love because, to begin with, I am indeed blinded by the directions to love. For me, love is a feeling that needs to be earned. And when I feel something, I need to be sure with what I feel. Hence, time is a factor.  As feelings need to be developed over a per iod of time, I need to be showered with enough fun and troubles that would draw me in and out of a lot of feelings that would lead me to feel loved, can't live without each other kinda love. Realising my needs has their own flaws, what I need may not be needed by the other person. As a result, I feel that my happiness does not come to me easily - which is why I would rather focus on having fun rather than getting serious with anyone, a habit that has rooted my social skills. I've dismissed a lot of love confessions because most of the time, the t...

I've been thinking -- Is there such thing as "right and/or wrong" decisions? Decisions. They were made because they seemed right at that point of time. After some time, those right decisions seemed wrong. What you once thought were right no longer make sense. Choosing a career for example, eight years ago, I decided to teach because at that time, it was the right thing to do, given the fact that I was qualified for that profession and I generally enjoyed doing it. As time goes by, I began to venture other professions and somehow I've come to realise that I have to rethink of the choice I made eight years ago. Do I still want to teach or do something else? That's the thing about decisions. As time goes by, things change. People change. Feelings change. With whatever you decided long time ago, like career and life partner, you are bound to either maintain them or let them go. Rather than staying in a job that doesn't fulfil you or being in an unhappy marriag...