Traffic Light

If you are cynical, judging and most of the time, you overly predict human behavior and responses, and you are terribly blunt with words or facial expressions which of course additionally you have poor control over your quick reactions, think of a traffic light:

Red means STOP,
Yellow means BE CAREFUL, and
Green means GO!

You cannot remove the reaction that you have. You would probably be thinking and processing the information in your brain while dealing with it at the same time. The key is to delay the reaction. Do not react so quickly. If it is RED, then it is RED all the way. Next, allow yourself to let everything go. Do not even think or talk about it with another person. In your prayers, ask forgiveness from Allah for looking at His creations wrongly. May Allah bless us and our efforts to change ourselves for the better.

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